The
ultimate abode
The first time I got a chance to embrace hostel life is during my graduation days. I’ve a number of experiences associated with it. Reflecting back to those days, when my parents dropped me at new shelter for the sake of attainment of educational qualification, I was filled with tears symbolizing the grief of separation. I had never imagined then that I would later start to appreciate living in hostel. In four years, I got to stay at two hostels; former presented a bag full of adversities and made me strong enough to survive in all situations reminding me of Charles Darwin’s hypothesis of survival of the fittest. I could conquer some of my fears, the most important being the fear of darkness. How can one be afraid of darkness by dwelling inside it? In other words, the erratic power supply helped me to befriend darkness. Earlier frequent power cuts bothered us but later we could find out that it signaled the commencement of end semester examination. Everything has its own importance let alone the challenges. The regular crisis of water those days made me value each drop of water even more. The journey from being a junior to senior resulted in a complete transformation in myself for good.
One can enjoy life
more when he lowers down his expectations from the surrounding. I learnt this
slowly. I had never thought that I would ever be able to stay in that new
hostel, but this fortunate thing happened. As student of 3rd years,
our batch along with final year batch got shifted to the newly constructed
hostel and my life changed with new roommates. I found them more connecting and
it seemed to have happened very quickly. From broken floor to tiled room,
blistered wall due to seepage of water to smoothly painted pale coloured wall-
everything seemed so magical and I started enjoying every moment. May be it all
happened because we ceaselessly struggled in first two years and now was the
turn getting the result of our struggle. This new hostel had everything that a hostel,
in general, should have and the most important room being the Conference room
with the provision of power supply during outage from inverter. Other good
things such as better connectivity, cleanliness in maintenance, proper lighting
facility, and delicious meal made each student contendent. I started to revert
back to my old form which I had lost in initial years. I started enjoying my
hobbies such as writing, painting and singing. The center of attraction for me
in that hostel was the view of sun rise and sun set from terrace. How
breathtakingly beautiful those scenes were! Oh! I was completely mesmerized.
One can very well make out the extent of its influence over me from the
frequent mention of terrace thing from other articles of mine. I fall short of
adjectives to describe that divinity- at one side the vibrant red colored flag
from the apex of the temple seemed touching the sky, other side the calm and
serene river flowing endlessly, and another side green open fields beyond the
boundary of hostel’s periphery, I would regularly climb up the stairs (with my
mobile and ear chord) leading to terrace to spend time by observing the
elements of nature. Terrace provided me perfect place for thinking and
imagining the limitless, many also felt that the cool breeze, the night sky
studded with little twinkling stars, the river side view from the terrace drove
away their anxiety and restlessness.
The new hostel
brought each batch closer. Our batch (3rd year) resided in top
floor. Each one of us felt the freedom of staying with own batch mates. The
mutual interaction brought us close enough to strengthen the bond of friendship.
I got to discover many with whom I had a limited interaction earlier. Each one
of them was filled with uniqueness- someone was artistic while the other a
brilliant dancer, when other impressed me with her non-flickering dedication,
other was very confident and eager to learn each moment. The experience of
staying in the hostel has made me systematic, self reliant, confident and
determined. The incidences such as late night birthday party and celebration,
the open dance, hostel functions, stressing over the result of examination, leg
pulling of each other, searching for latest Bollywood and Hollywood movies and
series( and audio tracks J ) , home theatre,
addressing each other by self devised nick names can never be washed away from
my memory. Not to forget, I had also managed to gain an appreciable amount of
readers for my articles in the non-virtual world, before I publish any article
, I always had a set of enthusiastic readers to scan my article thoroughly .All
those tiny precious moments have left an indelible print in my mind. The hostel
turned out to be an ultimate abode
for me as I always looked forward to return back to it as soon as I was away
from it.
Swati Sarangi
13.12.2014
I could never imagine going without water and or electricity. I really enjoyed this.
ReplyDeleteEven I did not ever imagine that.. but later I realised the adversities to be the factors behind one's strength..you no longer remain dependent on materialistic stuffs and lack of few requirements don't disturb your mind's tranquility.Thanks for reading and dropping by. :)
DeleteMy sincere gratitude for your time, sharing your experience and the resulting reflections. I hope your journeys continue to bring you illuminating inspiration. Many smiles ~ Robyn ~
ReplyDeleteThis is such a wonderful comment!! Life is nothing but mere collection of experiences.through journey.. Thanks a lot for having gone through this article..
DeleteHave a nice day!! :)
There is a phase in everybody's life where that person experiences butterfly effect or the sensitive response on initial conditions in which a small change in one state can result in large differences in a later state. Hostel life is one of those phases. It is also the phase that morphs you completely and you miss it and want to go back to it once it is gone. nice article :) (y)
ReplyDeleteThere's no denial with the fact that hostel life gives a handful of various experiences..yes,it aids to the process of metamorphism of the individual..The moments which made me cry have now become the subject of my laughter and on contrary the moments which made me laugh,will always be treasured in my mind.. Thank you for reading this post and dropping a comment..:)
DeleteThanks for sharing your joys and struggles Swati! I'm so glad you remain so positive despite adversities!
ReplyDeleteTo some extent, adversities improved my self conviction.. As it has been very rightly said what lies inside us is thousand times stronger than all external challenges.. Thanks for reading and posting a comment.. This makes my day!! :)
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